14 Pieces of Advice For Anyone Struggling to find Love
To find love takes a gradual process and there are stages for it too. If you fail to follow the right procedure you might end up choosing the wrong person for yourself where you are having lots of good people around that you can’t see, so if you want to choose right for yourself, you have to prepare yourself to be a good stuff and ready to receive the best that is coming your way too.
Here are the pieces of advice that can eventually prepare you for the best you want:
1. “Cut your coat according to yourself cloth.” Make sure someone you plan to choose is also trying to choose you. Make sure he or she is someone who is having same mentally with you. For example: you don’t like flashy things go for someone who doesn’t like flashy things too and if you are not materialistic go for someone who is your type too. There must be some balance in the way you see things.
2. You should stop searching for love in people who can’t figure out how to love themselves. Stop searching for external love. No one is equipped to love you quite like yourself so love yourself the way you want others love you.
3. Learn to love all parts of who you are. Start listening to yourself no one can give you better advice. Learn to trust yourself. Set boundaries for yourself. Let love find you when you are ready.
4. Don’t build your life around loving somebody else. Don’t try to force love with somebody who isn’t willing to give you what you need. Nothing that is meant for you will require force.
5. Be selfish with your love. Not everybody will appreciate it, and not everybody is deserving of it. Trust your instincts more. Stop trying to see the good in those who consistently show you the bad.
6. Forget about the people you used to know; they’re not the same people anymore. They are strangers again, but that’s okay. People are allowed to come and go it’s all to help you grow.
7. Every person you meet is meant to teach you something about yourself. You learn how to be strong and how to move along when faced with heartbreak.
8. Try not to blame yourself when people leave. Remember that nothing in life is guaranteed, so try to enjoy the moment.
9. Don’t trust nostalgia. Nothing was as perfect as nostalgia makes you believe. Memories can only taunt you if you cling to them.
10. The harder you try to hold onto somebody, the more likely they are to leave. Let go of the idea that anyone owes you anything life will be less upsetting.
11. Count on yourself to be the only person who is there for you at the end of each day.
12. Make peace with yourself. Choose yourself to be the one who makes you happy and you’ll find genuine happiness. You can be happy. Just give it time.
13. Find a friend in yourself. Love and care about yourself like you would your best friend. You are all you need anyone else in your life is a bonus.
14. learn to celebrate and honour yourself first even if no one is there to honour and celebrate you. Give yourself the best of best honour no one can honour you like you will do for yourself.
If you can prepare yourself with all these 14 pieces of advice, I believe you would have later find yourself who will be willing to take you for who you are. Take your time to prepare the very best of yourself for the person for you.
Stay safe and make others around you safe too.