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  • Someone asked:
    on April 23, 2024 7:03 am
    Hello everyone,pls I need ur advice ???? my sister borrowed me 120k with no interest to start business as a student.Pls which business did u think a female can do with just #150k? because I will be paying 10k every month to her for a year
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 23, 2024 3:28 pm
      There are lots of businesses you can actually do as a student with 150k. You can start online selling of wears, underwears, perfume, necklace, bags, shoes, Data, Airtime, some food times, (rice and beans) that is what student can't do without consuming... use online delivery and marketing strategy to always market yourself, it will make you go viral among the student quickly. Don't stock yourself up with goods from the little money you have now.. just go and find yourself a very sure plug, someone who own a big shop/store around who can be selling things for you in a whole sales prise so that when you sell you too can actually get your own small gain quickly from it. A store that can be giving you items base on request, don't go and put all your money to tie items down because it can actually lose value when people don't ask for it quickly. Just be advertising your things on social media and be telling people around with your mouth;this are what I sell, you can even show them pictures instead of physical goods... maybe for now till you can make enough profit to buy enough goods and Make sure you are not eating or taking anything out of your profits, if you do so you will run short at the end of the day. Make sure you have a business account. Separate one that you know you don't often go to withdraw money from.. let your money there become untouchable for you.
  • Someone asked:
    on April 21, 2024 5:24 pm
    Admin Matchmake me with a responsible man if you can I'm in my late 20's , fashion designer, I'm 5'4I need a presentable, handworking, God fearing man He must be a giver too
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 21, 2024 5:38 pm
      Give me a call +234730582692 or talk to me on WhatsApp let's discuss there.
  • Someone asked:
    on April 21, 2024 1:13 pm
    My ex is in my face What i mean is; He is friend with my brothers,my mother, some of my friends. The annoying part is I am not close to any of his family or friends like this. This gets me really angry, we broke up on a cool level so i dont even know how to get him not to communicate with my family again
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 22, 2024 7:32 am
      You just tell him to stop talking to your siblings since you are no more together. Let him know you don't Like that since you are no more together. As simple as that, but did you know that he is not dating you anymore doesn't make him an enemy to everyone he knows around you.. so stop seeing that as a big deal. I can say it's his own decision to stop talking to them or still continue, I think it's a matter of choice it shouldn't be by force. anyhow how you want it just tell him to stop it if you don't want that. Simple!!!
  • Someone asked:
    on April 21, 2024 12:30 pm
    And our relationship is 5years already I don't knw if he cheated on me too or not I'm just saying my own Kindly advice what I should do I love him so much and he does too so much he can't wait to marry me same with me,but immediately I confess he will leave me so don't tell me to confess
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 21, 2024 8:32 pm
      The reason why you don't know if he is also cheating on you, it's because you're seriously cheating in the relationship and there is no time or no way for you to concentrate on what is going on with your relationship. Did you know when he is having divided attention? No! You won't know because you are trying to concentrate on your other relationships too so you are always trying to meet up with all the relationships at a time which is impossible..(that is why cheating is not good) in a faithful relationship you will know when your partner is trying to cheat on you ...now that you are ready to concentrate you will start seeing some loopholes if there's any in the relationship before this time. Just be a bit patient with your relationship....and stop saying you love him. If you truly love him you won't have cheated on him. So better still; say you like him more than the others or referred him to others that you're cheating with. He seems to be your most preferred among others that is what you should have say. if you love him truly, you won't ever try cheating on him.. but it's better to clear your conscience even if it's going to cost you the relationship because even if he marry you, you may not be happy in the marriage because of guilty conscience and if he get to know later on, even when he has married you, it might still cause him to divorce you later so it's better to tell him early to know your faith and let him leave if he want to leave and stay if he want to. That's our advise to you our anonymous.
  • Someone asked:
    on April 21, 2024 12:25 pm
    Good evening I have a confession, I cheated on my bf because we are in a long distance relationship and anytime we had a misunderstanding I cheat on him But I have decided to stop doing that and be faithful Should I tell him or just leave it and focus more on us, because If I tell him he will leave me and I already know all his family and he knows mine too the remaining thing for us is getting married, and I promise I won't do that again. Should I confess to him or just continue with our relationship and be faithful without going back
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 21, 2024 6:32 pm
      Did you know that if you confess to him you will actually get your own mind free but you can because of that lose the relationship or get play in return?.... I know you can likely lose the relationship in the course of telling him the truth about yourself.... But it's better to be sincere to your partner than staying in a relationship you know you have not been true with. He might later find out about those things you have done secretly and then the disappointment and hurt you will get in return will be much more than what you can bear. To me, It's better to open up to him now and let him leave if he want, rather than faking things for him to still stay in the relationship.. there's every tendency that you can still lose the relationship. karma won't let you go free ... But just know that after telling him, it's 50/50 chances that you have you can either lose him.or gain him for life. Remember nothing goes forever no matter how you try your past will still have some impacts on your future because you can't eat your cake and still have it... Whatever it's after telling him or not telling him, just know you deserve everything that you get. You can't be smart all the times. At times your you think you are playing smart but your smartness will have some repercussions at last and even that conscience that is worrying you right now is one of the repercussions so face the music squarely. It's well.
  • Someone asked:
    on April 20, 2024 8:47 am
    I recent got into a relationship and my first visit to his place we had sex. During my stay at his house(I spent the weekend), I realise some certain behaviour from him which i find not funny 1. Stinginess( we wouldn't eat until i complain bitterly before he will go source food for us to eat) 2. Insecurity ( always wanting to check who i am chatting with at every given time) . After the whole visitation, we argue all the time and right now I am tired of the relationship Now here is the problem.. I realise i'm pregnant for him due to the sex we had and i honestly dont like him again cause we are not compatible. I dont know what to do. I dont know What to do with the pregnancy and the whole relationship.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 21, 2024 2:05 pm
      Why don't you even take time to study who he is before taking some steps you shouldn't have taken yet. First of all, you went to a new boyfriend's house using a whole weekend having an unprotected sex. Which is a total risk of life for you. (A guy you are not even sure of yet) What were you expecting if not unwanted pregnancy and some likely sexually transmitted diseases? You didn't even care if he is HIV/AID positive... among's others. My dear sister, you actually took the highest risk of your life in case you do not know. Here, we can never advise you to abort any pregnancy. Rather save the pregnancy even if your are not interested in getting married to him later on. The decision is yours anyways. I can see you don't even love him in the first place because it seems like you just want to cruise with him, if not, why would you lose feelings just like that? Did you know why he is so in secured? Maybe it's because he is feeling like you're so cheap to catch due to the easy se'x he had with you. Maybe he think that's how you are to other guys too and it might also be because he loves you and didn't want you cheat on him (becoming over protective because of love). that's depending anyways. But what you should find a solution to now is your pregnancy and don't ever think of aborting it please, if you can't marry him, please don't terminate the future of an unborn child that you don't know what it can become tomorrow.. and always remember there is a reason for everything in life. God might have a purpose for letting you get pregnant for him.. So please think very well about this before thinking of abortion please, because it can never be the best solution if you don't want to take more risks. You need to always thank of the risk that your life that can be involve too.
  • Someone asked:
    on April 14, 2024 11:35 am
    I went through my guy’s phone and noticed he has been flirting with girls, he has been apologizing since then, and the day I saw it on his phone he told me he hopes I’m calm now that I’ve seen what I’m looking for.. he has been apologizing., isn’t this enough reason to break up with him??
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 14, 2024 6:07 pm
      Good evening dear anonymous. Like he said: now that you have seen everything you are hoping to see on his phones what comes into your mind? Did you intend to leave him or continue with the relationship like that? The choice now is yours. And I know you still don't want to leave the relationship, so why going through is phones? Why can't you wait till you catch him red-handed? I think that would have been the best but nevertheless you can still decide not to leave him if you see that you can still bear with him and give him a second chance, just try to accept his apology even though i know it will be difficult but try do that to see if he will still continue with the same attitude you caught him with or turn a new leaf. In life everyone deserves a second chance, please for the sake of love don't deny him the second chance, please try give him that second chance at least for now and see what he will do after.
  • Someone asked:
    on April 8, 2024 10:15 am
    I have been begging my boyfriend for months now yo forgive and let's start over but he doesn't want to, the people I confined in said I should let go of him and move on but I love him. And now I have been able to convince him to meet me and let talk about what happened. Please what should I tell him for him to know that I'm really sorry and I really love him. It's about the issue I posted the other time that I lied to him about who got me my phone and later told him the truth.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 9, 2024 7:31 pm
      Dear anonymous, I remembered your question vividly. You don't need to start learning how to convince him with all the sweet words in this world, if he will leave you, he will still leave you and your words will actually change nothing. You just need to let him know you are truly sorry and let your emotions shows to him that you are really sorry indeed and still all the same; show him some prove that the phone is not from his rival or someone who you are secretly dating ... If it will need you to let him speak with the guy, better do! For him to really believe you because an average man may not believe what he didn't believe too and if after showing him the prove, if he still insist just let him go as he wish and don't try to force things to work, if you force him to stay you will end up becoming lonely in the relationship because you will be there all alone and his mind will be somewhere else or he can even later change you because he doesn't love you anymore, and did you believe he might have been looking for an opportunity to leave you before now? and it might also be the attitude of some guys that he is trying showing you; some don't know how to forgive, once you disappoint or offend them they loose the interest forever... Such people has weak love for you probably they are not real in love as much as you do... Finally, sometimes you just have to prove yourself and sometimes you don't need it; you only need to walk away if people don't really understand you but this time around you need to defend your errors because it's all your cause. I believe you understand this?
  • Someone asked:
    on April 8, 2024 10:08 am
    I have been begging my boyfriend for months now yo forgive and let's start over but he doesn't want to, the people I confined in said I should let go of him and move on but I love him. And now I have been able to convince him to meet me and let talk about what happened. Please what should I tell him for him to know that I'm really sorry and I really love him. It's about the issue I posted the other time that I lied to him about who got me my phone and later told him the truth.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 14, 2024 2:55 pm
      Dear anonymous, I remembered your question vividly. You don’t need to start learning how to convince him with all the sweet words in this world, if he will leave you, he will still leave you and your words will actually change nothing. You just need to let him know you are truly sorry and let your emotions shows to him that you are really sorry indeed and still all the same; show him some prove that the phone is not from his rival or someone who you are secretly dating … If it will need you to let him speak with the guy, better do! For him to really believe you because an average man may not believe what he didn’t believe too and if after showing him the prove, if he still insist just let him go as he wish and don’t try to force things to work, if you force him to stay you will end up becoming lonely in the relationship because you will be there all alone and his mind will be somewhere else or he can even later change you because he doesn’t love you anymore, and did you believe he might have been looking for an opportunity to leave you before now? and it might also be the attitude of some guys that he is trying showing you; some don’t know how to forgive, once you disappoint or offend them they loose the interest forever… Such people has weak love for you probably they are not real in love as much as you do… Finally, sometimes you just have to prove yourself and sometimes you don’t need it; you only need to walk away if people don’t really understand you but this time around you need to defend your errors because it’s all your cause. I believe you understand this?
  • Someone asked:
    on April 7, 2024 9:21 pm
    I needs a close male friend! That we will talk abt life and chatting frequently with calls... Age of 36-45 and He should be working class Yoruba... He must be well trained and mature more than enough! Just need a shoulder to lean on! Call this number 09156508646
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on April 7, 2024 9:26 pm
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