The Difference between Enduring And Suffering in Relationship
There is a difference between keeping quiet and being coward. You need to understand that there’s difference between enduring with someone and suffering in some relationship in the name of love.
No matter how much you love someone, don’t ever suffer in the name of enduring and don’t ever be a coward in the name of keeping quiet.
There are so many people that are suffering in their relationship with the notion that they are enduring or standing the test of time.
There are so many people that are acting like cowards because they are keeping quiet about something that they should have stand their ground to correct.
You are obviously seeing signs of things going wrong in your relationship and you are not doing anything about it because you don’t want your partner to be upset.
Don’t be a man by allowing things grow worse. Be a man by making things right.
If she makes it hard for you to be a man, She is not your woman. It’s better to look out for a woman that will make you a man, giving you peace of mind.
That’s one of the causes of going into marriage with unrealistic expectations or going into a relationship thinking that love and feelings are the same.
Love is a decision, it is one thing to marry the love of your life, it is another thing to love them for life.
It is possible to feel alone in the relationship when the person that you are in a relationship with is not deeply into you or does not really connect to you or has lost connection with you. They might be constantly communicating, but your communication is not dealing with your reality because they are not taking you for who you really are.
Sometimes the disconnect in the relationship is because one of the partners have been distracted and is not focused on what is needed in the relationship anymore.
Maybe they met someone that is constantly taking their time and attention and it has distracted them from focusing on you.
You can be communicating all the times and still be distant apart in the mind, deep inside you, you know their heart is far from you but you keep taking it.
They don’t pay attention to deep details and forgets dates, plans and appointments with you.
You might be giving your all and best and still be lonely. Out of sight could be part of the cause, when last have you guys seen? But remember out of sight should not be out of mind, if you partner is not giving you usual attention let him/her know.
Secondly, you guys need to have a heart to heart talk with each other and discuss about the relationship.
Talk about the state of the relationship and how you guys can make it work.
Identify the problem of being alone in the relationship and if you have a sensitive partner that loves you and willing to make the relationship a success, they will give it their time, attention and energy to see that you are alive emotionally.
Remember to always stand your ground in your relationship and if you are single, just know that one day, someone will come into your life so unexpectedly that it will take you by surprise and without realizing it, you’ve already fallen in love. For now, enjoy life being single because once that person arrives, your life will change forever.
Make your only relationship goal to be with someone who motivates me to become a better person and show me the potential I don’t see in myself.
Don’t let other people’s opinions stop you from what you really want to do in life. If it makes you happy, go do it.
Stay safe and make others around you safe too.