Real Reasons Men Dump You After Sex
A lady was asking why is it that most guys dump ladies after they finish having se× with them?
My answer to her was; that is because we realize that it’s only sex you can offer.
No man will dump a woman who can offer more than sex and unfortunately the only thing most women can offer is sex and nothing else.
A man has sexual desires so he will please himself even with a “mad woman” it doesn’t mean he want to keep her after that, no way.
However if the man realizes that there is more that even the mad woman can offer he will shun what society will say and be with her.
This is why most women who get married are in most cases not so special looking but the beautiful ones don’t get married.
A man wants more than sex, someone that will make him complete not a sex symbol.
Sex is only for at most 30 minutes in a 24 hours day so what can the woman offer to the man with the remaining 23 hours 30 minutes left in the day? This offering is what will make a man keep you. Most girls who think they are beautiful think sex is the only thing a man wants. As for me if you don’t have a future and I don’t see you to be the kind that can help me to be great in life, you can be as beautiful as Lucifer himself I will dump you.
If you depend so much on your beauty so you fail to learn the rudiments of life and how to make a man better, you become useless to any man and the fake prophets will tell you that your mother is responsible for your lack of marriage or woes in marriage. No normal thinking man will allow an industrious lady to go out of his life whether she is beautiful or not, never! The not so beautiful are humble to learn in life and humble themselves to men so you will always see them happily married and displaying their shiny gold wedding rings to the beautiful ones who are unmarried but are being played by men like table tennis ball, they hop from one man to another like grasshopper.
Sister how long will you be hopping? It’s okay sit down on your buttocks and learn sense that sex does not even constitute 1% of a human’s entire life.
Learn how to help a man to be great with the remaining 99% of his life.
Here are Some Other 10 Reasons Men Will Use And Dump You:
1. Women don’t listen. When a man says something, give him a chance to speak. Listen to what he says. The problem is that sometimes, guys will end up with someone who makes him feel as though he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. We’re not always right, but we do have opinions, and it gets under our skin when we’re made to feel like our opinion doesn’t matter. Who wants to stay with someone like that?
2. Women listen to their friends too much. We understand the need for female friendship. We can go with the girls’ night out deal. But when you start letting your single girlfriends (who constantly run guys off or haven’t dated since antenna TV) get into the business of your relationship, that’s asking for trouble. You want to think that your man has a mind of his own when he’s out with the guys, right? We’re no different. We expect you to talk to your girlfriends, even if it’s about us. Just be careful what you decide to bring back from those conversations.
3. The relationship is not a family affair. We’re not trying to take you away from your family. This is a relationship, not a kidnapping. However, if we’re mature enough to leave home and keep what goes on between us just between us, then is it too much to ask of you to do the same? If you tell your mom and your sisters about every single argument and disagreement that we have, then don’t you think that they’re not going to like us very much? Then you’ll wonder why we don’t like going around them, right?
4. We’re not joined at the hip. We don’t have to go every single place that you go, and we don’t expect you to go everywhere with us. That’s what makes our time together special. We each had our own likes and dislikes before we met. You did things alone or with your girls, and that’s fine. Don’t try to drag your man with you if it’s going to be nothing but you and the girls talking. We don’t want to sit and listen to talk about hair, nails, fashion, who’s man is cheating on who, etc. Just shoot us first, if that’s the case.
5. Is this a relationship or a prison sentence? A relationship is supposed to have trust. If a man feels that he’s not being trusted, and he hasn’t done anything deserving of the interrogation process, then don’t expect to have him around too much longer. This would apply primarily to someone who has a lot of insecurities.
6. Independence is great — to a point. Call it ego, male insecurity, whatever you like. There’s no getting around the fact that we need to feel that we’re in this for more than just sex (yeah, I know… sounds weird coming from a guy). If you keep telling a man (and showing him, too) that you can do everything on your own, then what do you need him for? As shallow as it may sound, we do have to have our ego fed just a bit (maybe some guys more than others, but I think you get the idea).
7. Being too dependent is not a good thing, either. I know it sounds like we can’t make up our minds between numbers 6 and 7, but there is a balance. It’s like we want a grown woman who can handle her business, but still let us know that there’s a place in her life for us that only we can fill. You’re not a child, and we don’t expect to treat you like one or take care of you like one. If you come to a guy for every single thing,and can’t seem to make up your mind or make decisions … well, one day he will make up his mind and not come back.
8. Don’t you ever have anything nice to say? Yeah, we mess up from time to time (and it may seem that those times run pretty close together). But what about some props? Can’t your man do anything right? I’m not talking about being patronizing or treating him like a first grader keeping his colors inside the lines (“Way to go, Ronnie!”. Nobody can stand always being criticized. Psychologists call it “positive reinforcement.” Men call it “giving us a break.”
9. There’s no future in the past. We’ve all made mistakes. The thing is to learn from them, not live in them. if your man made a mistake, and you’ve agreed to forgive him for it, then do that. Don’t bring it up and keep beating him over the head with it. If you keep bringing up the past, then be prepared to talk about your man in the past tense, as in “ex.”
10. Maybe his friends won’t be your friends, but don’t dog them out, either. He knew them before he knew you. He knows how they are. If one (or more) of his friends are players, he knows this already. You don’t have to remind him of that. if you keep making negative comments about them, what you’re really doing is showing an insecurity and, in a more subtle way, expressing a lack of trust. If he’s with you and everything is going right then don’t let whatever actions his friends take influence the relationship.
Take these percussions and let there be changes in you so that your next relationship will be a productive one.
Stay safe and make others around you safe too.