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  • Someone asked:
    I am pregnant for my bf but since I told him the news he has been forming busy til today I don’t know wha to do
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      Dear Anonymous, sorry about that but take time to find him to where he stays and try to confirm from him directly what exactly is happening to him. Try to know If he is trying to deny the pregnancy or not and it can also be maybe he is trying to dodge his responsibility as a man. Just try to find out when you see him. Do everything to have a one on one talk with him to know what he want you to do with the pregnancy you have for him, but you should know us here that we can never advice or support anyone to abort any pregnancy, just retain it no matter what it's because it's God's gift to the world at large and not just you the mother alone. And If he is a type of boyfriend that you know his people and you're truly in a very serious relationship with, better take a bold step by letting his people know about it, let them know that you're pregnant for him, it might let you get rid of the smart game he is trying to play with you also and from there you should know the way forward immediately.
  • Someone asked:
    Salary is not enough guys... Can someone hint me on things to do to earn me more money.N. B I've sold shoes ,bags etc online before...it didnt work.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      There are several ways you can explore to supplement your income in Nigeria. Here are some suggestions:1. Freelancing: Consider offering your skills or expertise as a freelancer in areas such as writing, graphic design, programming, digital marketing, or consulting. Websites like Upwork, Freelancer, and Fiverr are platforms where you can find freelance opportunities.2. Start a side business: Identify a product or service you can offer and start a small business on the side. This could range from selling handmade crafts, offering tutoring services, running a catering business, or starting an online store.3. Monetize a hobby: If you have a hobby or passion, explore ways to monetize it. For example, if you enjoy photography, you could sell your photos online or offer photography services for events.4. Invest in stocks or real estate: Consider investing your savings in stocks, bonds, mutual funds, or real estate. While investing carries risks, it can also provide opportunities for passive income and long-term wealth accumulation.5. Take on part-time work: Look for part-time job opportunities that you can do outside of your regular working hours. This could include evening or weekend shifts in retail, hospitality, delivery services, or online tutoring.6. Offer consulting services: If you have specialized knowledge or expertise in a particular field, consider offering consulting services to businesses or individuals who could benefit from your insights.7. Explore online opportunities: Take advantage of the growing digital economy by exploring online opportunities such as affiliate marketing, dropshipping, blogging, or creating and selling digital products like e-books or online courses.8. Provide freelance services: Offer your services as a freelancer in areas such as writing, graphic design, programming, digital marketing, or virtual assistance. Platforms like Upwork, Freelancer, and Fiverr connect freelancers with clients worldwide.9. Rent out property: If you own property, consider renting out a room or apartment to generate additional income. You could also explore short-term rental options through platforms like Airbnb.10. Start a small-scale farming or gardening business: If you have access to land or space, consider starting a small-scale farming or gardening business. You could grow fruits, vegetables, or herbs to sell at local markets or directly to consumers.Remember to carefully research and consider the risks and requirements of each option before pursuing it. Additionally, it's important to manage your time effectively and prioritize self-care to avoid burnout while juggling multiple sources of income.
  • Someone asked:
    Hello! Happy Sunday. Pls I need a lady who is ready to settle down. A working class lady and between the age of 30 to 36. Someone who as a relationship with God. A Christian lady. Thanks. Hope to hear from you soon.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      Can this person just call/WhatsApp me? +2347030582692 I think that will be Better so that we can talk this better.
  • Someone asked:
    Hello,I have stayed long without the desire to be in a relationship and I finally decided to open my heart to love. Not long after I met this guy who initially thought he was a muslim too cus he looks as such. I started to love him after our interactions before finding out our differences in religious beliefs Being with him makes feel I've genuinely find love now but the thought of us unable to build this relationship into the future as couple makes me confuse My parent won't accept our bond nor marriage in the future. At times, I come to a conclusion to break up with him but feel this is the love I have been waiting for What should I do? Your advice are warmly accepted
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      At times religious believe can actually play a significant role in marriage and sometimes it's depending on how serious you take the religion. Some families don't even joke with their religion most especially in some parts in Africa that I won't like to mention just because they are deep rooted in their religion.... So my advice is if you know your family will/may not permit, why going further when you know that they can make things miserable for you? Sometimes people you so much love may not determine marriage or be a passport for marriage.. but how peaceful will the marriage be matters most or what does the future holds for you matters. The thing is, if you can stil convince your parent, it will be fine, you are good to go and if you can't, I won't advice you to go further because you will need their blessings in the marriage and if you want their blessings you won't joke with their wish. Try to plead with them this early stage of love and if they are still insisting, it's better to do what they wish. In Africa parents have a great and significant role to play in marriage and sometimes determine the choice of it...
  • Someone asked:
    My ex and I usually share our nude pictures and video to eachother while we were still dating because we had a long distance relationship.. We had issues and i broke up with him.. Few days now, I've been getting messages from strange numbers telling me they love my videos and how much i charge for a sex.. I know it is my ex hand work. i dont know how to make him stop and i am afraid this might turn to actual blackmailing. Please advice me Some of the video has my face in it.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      Of course he has started blackmailing you already because it seems he has started showing his friends those that asked you how much you will charge for a sexx are likely to be his friends or him using another account...Well the deed has been done. Well confront him first and ask him why he is doing such a childish thing, if you are so sure you didn't share it with anyone else than him, just let him know that if he didn't stop, you will file the case before the law.. and why are you sharing your private parts with someone else, even someone you are not married to, a boyfriend indeed, you are so blind with love that you are not expecting this kind of day? I blame you seriously for that but confront him first if not, there is nothing you can do if he decides to start sharing it on media. People will just be abusing you when you should have caution him in time or open up to someone who can help you confront him and threaten him to delete it and most not hear anything of such from any angle again if not he will rot in jail for deformation the offense.
  • Someone asked:
    I have this older guy that is really into me... He ask me to marry him, promise to open a business for me even before we marry and make me really comfortable. The problem now is I don't love him, but I really want to consider him because i am really struggling as a single lady and i feel he is capable of taking care of me. Will i be making the right choice if i agree to marry him
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      This may not be the right choice because you are forcing things to work because you are in need and there's no love in between. You don't know that situations can change and the shop he is planning to open for you can run down, will you still love him? That is the big question. If things are no longer the same will you stil want to stay with him? He will surely irritate you like shit if things change from the initial agreement, that is the truth but there can come a situation whereby you can later grow to love him like he deserves but that is on a very rare occasion. If you still find someone you love or doing better for you, you will stil fly away from him but it's like he loves you. Just try if you can love him back, give him a try and if it stil can't work, please don't force it if you are not growing feelings for him after a long wait, don't force the marriage to happen because you will later stil live to regret your actions and this thing you are just trying to do is one of the factors of a broken home. So think well about it before you take any action, don't use your current situation to decide, it can affect you.
  • Someone asked:
    Hello everyone,pls I need ur advice ???? my sister borrowed me 120k with no interest to start business as a student.Pls which business did u think a female can do with just #150k? because I will be paying 10k every month to her for a year
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      There are lots of businesses you can actually do as a student with 150k. You can start online selling of wears, underwears, perfume, necklace, bags, shoes, Data, Airtime, some food times, (rice and beans) that is what student can't do without consuming... use online delivery and marketing strategy to always market yourself, it will make you go viral among the student quickly. Don't stock yourself up with goods from the little money you have now.. just go and find yourself a very sure plug, someone who own a big shop/store around who can be selling things for you in a whole sales prise so that when you sell you too can actually get your own small gain quickly from it. A store that can be giving you items base on request, don't go and put all your money to tie items down because it can actually lose value when people don't ask for it quickly. Just be advertising your things on social media and be telling people around with your mouth;this are what I sell, you can even show them pictures instead of physical goods... maybe for now till you can make enough profit to buy enough goods and Make sure you are not eating or taking anything out of your profits, if you do so you will run short at the end of the day. Make sure you have a business account. Separate one that you know you don't often go to withdraw money from.. let your money there become untouchable for you.
  • Someone asked:
    Admin Matchmake me with a responsible man if you can I'm in my late 20's , fashion designer, I'm 5'4I need a presentable, handworking, God fearing man He must be a giver too
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      Give me a call +234730582692 or talk to me on WhatsApp let's discuss there.
  • Someone asked:
    My ex is in my face What i mean is; He is friend with my brothers,my mother, some of my friends. The annoying part is I am not close to any of his family or friends like this. This gets me really angry, we broke up on a cool level so i dont even know how to get him not to communicate with my family again
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      You just tell him to stop talking to your siblings since you are no more together. Let him know you don't Like that since you are no more together. As simple as that, but did you know that he is not dating you anymore doesn't make him an enemy to everyone he knows around you.. so stop seeing that as a big deal. I can say it's his own decision to stop talking to them or still continue, I think it's a matter of choice it shouldn't be by force. anyhow how you want it just tell him to stop it if you don't want that. Simple!!!
  • Someone asked:
    And our relationship is 5years already I don't knw if he cheated on me too or not I'm just saying my own Kindly advice what I should do I love him so much and he does too so much he can't wait to marry me same with me,but immediately I confess he will leave me so don't tell me to confess
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      The reason why you don't know if he is also cheating on you, it's because you're seriously cheating in the relationship and there is no time or no way for you to concentrate on what is going on with your relationship. Did you know when he is having divided attention? No! You won't know because you are trying to concentrate on your other relationships too so you are always trying to meet up with all the relationships at a time which is impossible..(that is why cheating is not good) in a faithful relationship you will know when your partner is trying to cheat on you ...now that you are ready to concentrate you will start seeing some loopholes if there's any in the relationship before this time. Just be a bit patient with your relationship....and stop saying you love him. If you truly love him you won't have cheated on him. So better still; say you like him more than the others or referred him to others that you're cheating with. He seems to be your most preferred among others that is what you should have say. if you love him truly, you won't ever try cheating on him.. but it's better to clear your conscience even if it's going to cost you the relationship because even if he marry you, you may not be happy in the marriage because of guilty conscience and if he get to know later on, even when he has married you, it might still cause him to divorce you later so it's better to tell him early to know your faith and let him leave if he want to leave and stay if he want to. That's our advise to you our anonymous.