Reasons You Should Not Force A Relationship To Work

Reasons You Should Not Force A Relationship To Work.Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t value you. There will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot. You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work when it’s clearly written that it is not meant to work.

You need to know these:

  • You need to know that you can’t force someone to genuinely care about you.
  • You need to know that you can’t force someone to be faithful to you.
  •  You need to know that you can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be so for the sake of your mental health let people be if they choose not to be part of you anymore.

The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without. You need to understand that some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay forever but to teach you a temporary lession that will build you up for your better future.

Everything that you do to show love, you have to be careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

I know it’s hard when you meet someone and your heart feels, that’s the person you could spend an eternity with, it’s hard to accept that they are not that person you thought they needed to be. Don’t waste too much time with people that are not meant for you, anyone who doesn’t see you the way you see him/her is not meant for you, love must be in the state of equilibrium. If you are always the one trying to make it work such relationship is not meant to be, and no matter how many times you cry yourself to sleep at night, you will eventually heal from your previous relationship and find the one you have always longed for. Your future will now bring an understanding of why things didn’t work out in your previous relationships.

Why you should not force a relationship to work

1. Mental health.

You will look good in and out your mental health will be stable and one’s emotional well-being, especially with reference to one’s outlook on life, ability to cope with stress and there will be no fear of mental disorder.

2. Marital peace.

If you force someone to love or stay in a relationship with you, even if you marry him/her later forget peace in the marriage. you won’t have the confidence that your marriage will have peace. There no assurance that your partner will give you peace of mind in marriage if you later marry him/her. So if you want to have peace go for someone who loves you like you love him/her.

3.  Fear of divorce 

The Fear of divorce is another thing, if you force a relationship to work, you may later end up divorcing the person because there will be no love and affection. The marriage will be from one issue to another, you will be facing a lot in the marriage because you force him/her to stay in your life.

One thing I have learned throughout in life is “It is better to be single than to be in a relationship settling for less.”

If they see you as an option, then they don’t deserve to be a priority in your life.

Take my advice and never chase someone who’s not chasing you.

Stay safe and make others around you safe too.