Many relationships and marriages has being facing the challenges of trust or let me say their major challenge is the issue of trust. Which might have being what is deferring happiness and disturbing the smooth running of the marriage or the relationship. Issues like this there are urgent steps you need to take. Read them in the article below.
- First thing to do is apologize for all the wrongs done
Apology is needed when your partner don’t trust you anymore. Maybe he or she met you doing what you said you are not doing anymore. Truly he or she can’t just stop loving you immediately but because you have hurt them they will find it difficult to believe in you again. So you need apology and telling them the reasons why it happens or if it was a mistake let them know and promise them it wouldn’t happen again.
- Don’t think they will start trusting you immediately like before. Secondly what you need is sincerity and faithfulness.
You need to be sincere with everything you are doing after then. Allow them to see that you are not doing the same thing again and all that happened was a mistake. Prove to them that you wouldn’t do such again… When you do this, the Belief in you start developing again gradually in them.
- Third thing to do is allow your partner to get close to you privacy than before.
Give him/her the right to see your private life than before. What they don’t know about you before allow them to know. In this our modern world what we can regard as private life is social media and your mobile phones allow them to have their free access to your phones password and Check your private chat with friends on medias. This equally build or rectify trust issues in marriage and relationships.
- Fourth thing to do is making your partner feel happy.
You need to always do things that will make him/her happy, promising him/her that what happened in the past can never happen again. The more you try to do this, he/she will be happy and begin to start trusting you again. Happiness is an important key in marriage and relationship that can open any hard doors. So do things that will make your partner always happy being round you or being part of your life.
- Fifth or let’s say last but not the list thing to do is to be proud of having him/her.
Showing your partner proudly to friends and family. Don’t hide them when you are in public or social gatherings. This also rectify trust issue in a relationship and marriage. Just know that being proud of what you have is actually the best gift to give for love.
So if you can do this little five things to build trust again in your relationship and marriage will be easy. Please share if you agree.