13 Golden Steps For Parents And Guidance That Want To Properly Raise Their Children 

13 Golden Steps For Parents And Guidance That Want To Properly Raise Their Children 

Of course proper upbringing of our children can be what is so difficult for some parents and guidance mostly single mothers

But being a single mother, you should know that you will be strong enough to perform both the duty of the father as well as mother you are.

So being a single mother, parenting challenges increases greatly and if you are not extraordinarily careful your children might be a victim of your circumstances and their lives will end up being equal to yours or absolutely looking like yours.

Well before going to single parents let’s talk first on normal couples and end it up with single parents.

Of course the way we raise our children will determine how they will behave in the society.

There are things their teachers in schools will never have the opportunity to take them through, parents and guidance are to do it from home before getting to schools.

Teach them these following:

1. How to manage opposite se×.

Let them know what to do when they see their friends that are not of the same se× with them.

2. Let them no  the relationships between Their siblings that are opposite se× too, limitations between male and female siblings as well as friends.

3. Properly educate all your children about se× don’t hide anything for them this is 21st century the know faster than you could think of, if patents fails to tell them the truth, when they get to the society or schools they will be forced to learn it in the wrong ways. Times has passed those times you will tell your male child that if you just touch the cloth of a girl she will automatically get pregnant. Let them know details of se× don’t manipulate things for them.

Tell them if you do this or do that to a lady this is what will happen at the end, let them know it all.

4. Teach them how to respect female child, create that fears in the mind of your male children not to bully your females or females outside. Let them know that they are weaker vessels, teach them no matter what they shouldn’t beat their females. Let them know why they shouldn’t hit them hard like they can do to males like them.

6. Let the male children be more use to the father, there should be freedom to say anything that is bothering them to their father.

7. Teach him also how to pray and have fears of God at heart at early stage of his life because male children will always have a Lion’s mind because he is a muscular gender, he will automatically have that believe that he can do the females at anytime. If you don’t give him proper training he will misuse his personality to bully his female Siblings or outsiders.

8. Let the females too be use to their mothers side and let them be free to say anything in her minds to their mothers.

Don’t create unnecessary fears in the heart of your children, if they are not free they won’t be free to let you know when they are facing challenges in life and that can mislead them in life.

10. Teach them how to identify responsible male and female friends. Don’t force them to choose friends but let them know the type of people to be with as friends in life and how to choose LOVE.

11. Take some times to tell them your own stories and give them reasons they shouldn’t take some steps like you did if wrong.

12. Give them duties as a parent, so that they can know their responsibilities as a man and as a woman. Challenges of life can take them to any length in life just teach them everything and let them know the kind of work that is normal for males and those that are meant for females because when their wives is not able to do it, they should be able to help them out freely.

13. Women, teach your male children to respect the father even you need to respect their father before them, even when he is not there with you. For example: Junior stop doing that if your father comes back he will beat you. Did you know that?

Allow them to have the fear of superior figure of the house in their hearts always, which is their father.

If your children knows that their father is always the simple type, they will do their wish not what is right.

Do these to your male children and females too so that you can easily correct them when they want to go out of controls.

Let me stop there for normal couples and let’s talk about single parents

Being a single parent is not a crime but you should know you carries the responsibility of both parent and it’s common this days than before, this days we have many single mothers in our world of today.

If you are one, how can you manage your children that they will grow up to be a responsible Fellows?

You as a single mother must learn how to make your child have fears for someone. It might be their teacher in school, uncle, or grandfather or someone close to you that is man enough and well disciplined so that when they start misbehaving if you mention the name of the person they start to act Normal.

There should be a superior person in a child’s life during their early age 1 to 18 years. Children of these days are naturally smart and very intelligent to know some things, if they don’t have a good mentor they will become what is not normal. They must have that fear for someone.

Single parents should learn how to counsel their children alone mostly on what you did wrong or steps you followed that you don’t want him or her to follow again which you know that it can affect his or her life like Yours.

Teach your children how to pray as well and make sure your Mistakes are not what they are repeating again.

Don’t be too harsh on them when you see they are not doing what is right, correct your children with love and that is how they can get what you meant and still start thinking about it Later.

life of single parents is more like normal couples the only difference is that you learn to do it all alone.

Stay safe and make other people around you safe too.